“Wisdom means to choose now what will make sense later. I am learning everyday to allow the space between where I am and where I want to be, to inspire me and not terrify me.” – Tracee Ellis Ross
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Just Face It: 5 Face Must Haves
Five skin must haves that I cannot function without… pop the top to get the details!!
#SupportKingdomMusic
Hey loyal readers and passerby’s, make sure you tune in and watch BET’s 106 & Park Wednesday, October 3rd for the national television premiere of James Fortune & FIYA’s “Hold On” featuring Monica and Fred Hammond!!!
And VOTE VOTE VOTE for it to be on the countdown!!
No Sex?? Where They Do That At!?!
I was inspired to write a little something shummtinnnnnn about celibacy and sex after a many convos with close girlfriends over the years and even more now because of the relationship I am in. This post is for men and women but especially for women because it’s coming from our point of view. I don’t want to dive into the “deep” stuff just yet in this post so I will keep it light and simple.
Safe to say majority of my close friends and I have had these convos at one point or another where we struggle with the conviction of constantly living a sinful lifestyle of premarital sex, whether be in a relationship or just with someone you were “kickin it with” … We struggle with the strong spiritual desire to please God but then there’s the physical need to feed your flesh, or make the person you think you love happy. And it can be a battle that goes on for a long time.
New Music: Power by Ike Thompson
It’s election season there is an amazing lyricist, producer, and rapper (who just happens to be my little brother) that you should check out. He submitted a song to be featured on a new mixtape. The lyrics are positive and uplifting and something you can rock to daily. Click the pic to listen and vote! Thanks!!
Dear Summer
I think it’s safe to say I have had a good summer. Far from perfect but just what the doctor ordered to get my heart back to where it needed to be before I move again. I was very sad, low, depressed and all the above coming back from LA and there were many tears and rebuilding during May but sometimes you have to hit that low to start over with a stronger foundation. Above anything else I am thankful for God’s unending, unfailing, unwavering love for me. He is so amazing and I’m glad He has been by my side through every up & down & turn around of these past few months. Lots of music writing, connecting with wonderful people in the industry, working, eating, starting a non-profit, and even falling in love *happy sigh* … Continue reading for my summer recap and photos and thank you to all my loyal readers and subscribers!! xo
#USA
$ix $imple Ways To $ave
Coming back from LA and transitioning into a new job while looking for another job and having some serious financial goals all while still trying to make time for my dreams has my budget spreadsheet all out of wack right now. Difficult isn’t impossible when it comes to rebuilding your savings, paying off debts, and executing financial goals when you make a plan and stick to it. Here are six simple steps I have been trying to implement as well as a few tips I’ve learned from others. Continue reading for 6 simple ways to save when you are rebuilding or first time building a savings and setting new financial goals!
Insanity Workout 30 Day Results
Time to get healthy and drag sexy back people!! Summer is almost officially here, so let’s get these beach bodies ready! Check out my 30 day Insanity workout results from January!! Continue reading for the 55 second video!

